So i need help understanding sandi’s rules and some of the stuff from the book. How far do i take these things? Do i do anything at all for her (like clean or go to the store for her)? How do i gain her respect without her blowing up on me and saying horrible things to me? Do i need to communicate with her currently, and how do i properly do it for the future? How do the techniques in the book break down? And how far do i take those? Do i do what she wants me to do? How do i get a life and go dark and stuff while still showing her that i love her and want to be with her? Things like this, i know it’s a lot of questions but i need help clearing some of this up
