Maybe I know what to do 5

[Ready2Change]

OK then try this:

1. Quit posting here for 2 days.
2. Go out and do 2 GAL activities that you've never tried before.

Hint- GAL DOES NOT involve W, asking about W, asking for advice about W, telling someone what W did/ said and asking what it means, telling someone what you are going to do next and asking how W will interpret that, doing something and asking if it's good DB'ing and how soon W will respond to it, describing something that W did not do and asking what it means, talking about whether W is friendzoning you, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.

STOP TALKING ABOUT W!!!!!!! STOP IT!!!!!!! Get out. GAL. Enough with the "I live so far from anything" excuses, and the "oh I'm too busy farming" junk. I come here every few days and there are TEN PAGES of new posts in your thread in that time. If you've got that kind of time on your hands then you can surely carve some time out of this place and go GAL.

This is #1 in your list. ( Since I am away, I am not sure if you got the prioritized list done)





W:"What are you thinking about?"
H:"I am concerned about our finances and trying to decided how to proceed. Do you have any thoughts?"


is different than

W:"What are you thinking about?"
H:"I am sad that you don't love me anymore. I wish we could just work this out by talking"

Do you understand this?



R2C:"OZ, what are you thinking about?"

List out all the real things you are thinking about. Then cross off the ones not to say to her.