Is it over?

[SoTorn]

Jb. You need to understand that you dont get to decide to keep her or not. She already decided your R is over. So accept that. Your R is over. Focus on yourself. Stop trying to manipulate the situation to get a response from her. Stop trying to control the outcome. You cannot control the outcome.

All you can do is focus on bettering yourself. Thats it. You need to 100% focus solely on making yourself a better person physically and mentally. You control you and she controls herself. There is literally nothing you can do to change her mind.

You can better yourself and have hope that she sees this and decides to come back to you. But that cant be your drive. Your drive is to do everything you can to make yourself a better man and all of the decisions you make moving forward should only have that goal in mind. Make decisions that make you happy.

Stop worrying about what she thinks and what she does.