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Jb2019 #2859339 07/30/19 12:22 AM
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Dude she’s not your mommy. Tell her not in these words but I don’t give a flying fuch where you sleep, but I’m sleeping in my fuching bed.

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She said she’d sleep on the couch if i don’t sleep elsewhere, and that she should’ve had her guy friends over. But she said she is done and when the papers come in i better sign and that i need to work on myself because it is over between us. Saying she felt like this since her dad died and it hasn’t gotten better and she considers herself single. Said she id changing her fb relationship status and will want me out of the house and that she was being nice letting me live here..i’m so torn up about this, she said i haven’t been communicating again..i want to communicate with her but idk how really..i think it might be too late but i really hope it isn’t

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She also said if I work by myself at sea may let me come see her and the dogs

Jb2019 #2859346 07/30/19 12:31 AM
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J,

She’s just giving you the typical WW bs. Let her sleep on the couch. Don’t leave the house. Give her time and space and listen and validate.

Print out Sandis rules and start to implement them.

Jb2019 #2859348 07/30/19 12:36 AM
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Oh wow that is so gracious of you your royal highness. Give me a fuching break.

You should work on yourself but for you. Not her trying to dangle some scraps like you’re her little lap dog.

Jb2019 #2859349 07/30/19 12:39 AM
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So with all this is it done for? Is there still hope if i follow the book and the rules?

Jb2019 #2859350 07/30/19 12:44 AM
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Sure there is hope. It’s not going to happen over night and you’re gonna have to become a man only a fool would leave.

Jb2019 #2859351 07/30/19 12:57 AM
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Do i try to have sex or touch or anything if i want to? Or will it make things worse

Jb2019 #2859352 07/30/19 12:59 AM
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Dude - let her come to you. You'll appear needy and that's not attractive at all.


H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019
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I still can’t believe she said i had no right to tell her no to all that, what am i supposed to say to it, she also asked if i’d sign the papers when they come in and if i don’t i’ll have to pay the court costs since she’s paying 100 for it through the mail..i feel like she was saying things to hurt me more like having guy friends over and saying she’s single and stuff. She got really upset when i told her no and she started to tear up a little, she said we have no relationship anymore

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