Good advice. I explained above about wanting him out of my home. To add that he left, wants the D and has eaten cake over the past 2 years. Sometimes I served it mistakenly thinking we were working on things. Every time he would return to his duty station he’s forget about me and the kids until he came to my location for work or vacation. I also have suspicions about an EA too because of messages he sends and he also told me about this “friendship “ with the secretary. I learned about this in December. He said he really likes her and she’s married with kids too and they haven’t hugged yet.... since then I’m not so sure. I guess I’d like to protect my mental health and force him to lose this family he left so he can either fight for it or not. Either way I need to get better. He was texting her a few days ago right when we were having wine and watching our old favorite shows.
I’m good with the communication unspoken boundary.
