I’ve told D and W I’m moving back in. My lease is up, she broke our agreement and he is hanging about around my house.

She is rattled. Got some lawyerspeak email from her that tries to weaponise the children and her depression against me.

She says she will start mediation if I move back in. As if that is a threat?!

My response will be that I will move back in if a) she starts mediation b) let’s OM anywhere near my house and my D, or c) when my lease comes to an end. Whichever of those scenarios comes first will trigger my move.

Found out today W is getting two cats. She knows I’m allergic to cats. She also knows D is allergic to cats.

She is trying to keep control...


H41 (me), W43
M10, Together 16
S18, D9

BD - Jan 19
‘Temp’ S (I moved out) - Feb 19