Had a long think about this and I can't help but see other signs that show she isn't genuine. I don't want to ruminate on the details. I got surprised and once again you all here have grounded me.
I've taken off the ring and plan to go back to where I was last week. I consider DB to have cooled a bit this week.
I feel slightly angry and disappointed in myself that I allowed myself to be more attached and to gain hope from her words. But that hope has quickly faded. I know I can focus and get back to DB and continuing my GAL (which hasn't stopped). I feel stronger than ever.