When he comes to my location on business trips or for vacation to see the kids, he ends up staying at my home and ultimately we end up playing house. I go back to doing laundry for him, bringing coffee, making breakfast....I’ve even gone as far to walk a mile to take the bus to work so he would have my ride to get around. He must find me super pathetic.
This time it wasn’t as bad as I have been GAL and detaching. Still I need him out of the cake eating environment and I need to stop enabling it.
I think I’m good with the contact boundary.
The joint account just because he had a few transactions come out and if I didn’t leave a balance it would’ve gone negative.
