Why the first boundary? Do you NOT want to welcome him into your home? If you are saying he has a key, then just ask him for the key back.
On the second boundary, that is one you can enforce without telling him you are setting it. When he calls, let it go to VM. If it is about the kids respond with a text. When he texts, ignore it unless it is about the kids.
Why is the last one a big deal? Can't you just transfer the money to your personal account after he deposits it in the joint account?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
