Gerda - how can you not see what a gigantic A$$ your H is? I mean seriously, every time I read one of his passive aggressive self-important weirdo letters I want to vomit.
And he was never very sexual with you? I have to ask, do you think he might be gay? Or just asexual?
As for the poverty issue - why isn't he busy earning a living to support his family?
Honestly, there is something VERY WRONG with this man. I'm not sure exactly what it is but he's NOT RIGHT IN THE HEAD. Stop letting him gaslight you.
