What about things I said or didn’t say night of BD. Does it matter. Is there something I should say now. Like an actual well though out apology for my part in our failing M. Or is everting I said that might actually moot
HECK NO you shouldn't do this. No R talks means NO R TALKS!
Originally Posted by ozman
And did I start DBing too quickly? Like I was going along with her “unhappiness” and ok just being her friend forever
No such think ozman, In fact, if LBSs would start DBing the second they get BD'd, they would be way better off, regardless of what happens to their MR.
See ozman, you struggle because you are still trying to save your marriage. That is out of your control. (Because it takes two to make a marriage and you can't control her.) You need to start trying to save yourself.
Last edited by Steve85; 07/29/1905:46 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
