Ohh ok. Thanks. The support is actively listening. So validation is a form of support?
Winner Winner!!!!!! Women just want you to listen and be present. By being present I mean if she is talking your not multi-tasking, texting on your phone, surfing the Internet or playing video games. When she is talking it is just you sitting or standing there watching her, looking at her, giving her your un-divided attention. If you can't in the moment then just let her know you would love to listen but you need 5 minutes.
There is nothing else you need to say, it doesn't matter. It is moot. Move forward.
No you did not DB too quickly. You need to start though as it has been two months.
She needs to see a different OZ because the one that was showing up is not working for her.
