Ohh ok. Thanks. The support is actively listening. So validation is a form of support?
What about things I said or didn’t say night of BD. Does it matter. Is there something I should say now. Like an actual well though out apology for my part in our failing M. Or is everting I said that might actually moot
And did I start DBing too quickly? Like I was going along with her “unhappiness” and ok just being her friend forever
Like I said. I’m not analyzing her. I’m analyzing me. A switch really did flip inside my head. I get it. I can’t control her. I just want to play the best hand I can in the meantime
I see Steve. Thank you. I’m not ready to D yet so I guess the FZ is where I am for now. Thanks for the input. I guess I’ll just be the best me I can and hope she changes her view of me
