On the FZ thing and getting out of it. How does that mix with DBing? Like when you say “getting out of the R all together” do you mean just ending it for good and getting Dd?
Or does it mean I am just DBing so hard and GALing like crazy and there is no time for R unless she wants one?
Or is that what would make her take me out if the FZ?
I just would like a little clarification on that please.
Either way I’m really excited about my breakthrough this weekend. I don’t know what changed inside. But something did. I’m really excited to feel a little growth. I’m actually READY to work on myself
It means walking away from the MR because you refuse to be in the FZ with your W.
This is hard for newbies to understand is that sometimes you have to D to R. It happens more than you would think. Now I am not telling you that you should be to that point yet. Your sitch ain't 2 months old! So give it time and patience. The overall point is that there is nothing ou can do to make her take you out of the FZ. Nothing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
