From what I understand there are 2 different LRTs Going dark is what you guys are talking about and I’m talking about what’s in the book.
What you guys are telling me to do now is LRT in the book. I’m asking if I started LRT too quickly. After I told her at BD if we are done then we are done?
I’m not analyzing her at all. I’ll analyzing myself. Making sure I took and am taking the right steps. Like I said I’m actually READY to work on me. I’m EXCITED about working on me. I’ve realized I can’t coax her back. Everything you guys have said has sunk in
I’m just trying to figure out if there was something I should have said at BD that I didn’t that needs said now. Or. If I started Bding so quickly that she thinks it’s ok that we are just friends because of what I said BD night
I have also read a lot of sitches on here where the friend zone was where guy was and he was such a good friend that W finally came back
I’m going to work on me. Believe that. I just want to play my cards right in the meantime
There is going to be a fine balance to supporting W and listening to W and GAL. I have to find it
