Originally Posted by petri
Despite XW asking me to join her and the kids at her parents cottage and a waterpark nearby. I declined and told her that family trips went to history via D. She said that she asked b/c of guilt and missing us. And later on went on the same how I didn't fight for her and how I didn't love her...when will WWs stop this?


It may never stop, my XW still does stuff like this on and off and we've been D'd for years. Sometimes I accept the invitations and sometimes I don't. I don't know what her motivations are and to be honest I don't care, when I do go it's to spend more time with the kids. You're maybe not 100% detached yet but you'll get there. When you do this kind of stuff won't bother you at all.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57