I told you a couple of days ago that you were not in LRT. You are not even doing in-house separation and your wife has not done anything to push what she has said forward. You have been told she is vulnerable but you continue to analyze. When are you going to start taking action on yourself?

I feel like we are having to repeat ourselves multiple times.

You can't talk her into having sex with you again. You can't talk her into feeling in love with you again.

Actions Actions Actions!!!

Your W is missing some emotional connection with you. Usually it stems from a lack of communication and a lack of her feeling as though you are present and actively contributing to the home. Again you just can't wake up, go to work, come home, and sit on the couch, then go to bed.. Support your W, listen to your W, validate your W, give your W your undivided attention. Be present when you are at home.

It's not about talking.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018