Very serious question. I was reading on another website about MWD LRT success stories. Something they said very bluntly is don’t LRT to early. It is for last resort.

You are supposed to have tried everything else first. I never even really tried. I just said I think we could fix this the night of BD and she said I don’t know if I want to work on it. Then about a week I stayed at work till almost bed time and still said ILY which she would only respond about 1/3 rd of the time. Then I started DBing.

Just wanted to make sure that I shouldn’t have tried harder to talk things out right after BD. Cause that night I told her if it was over than it was over and we had a great run but I thought we should try. But either way I would always be her friend.

Like I said earlier I am focused on me now. I just want to be sure she doesn’t think I’m pushing her away because of how I handled BD.

Does my question make sense?


Me 32. W. 30
T 10 years M 8
S 8

Bd 5-31-19