[Journal] I have a lot of anxiety today leading up to this boundary setting conversation that will happen tonight.
I want it to come from a place of strength and love without seeming cold.
The boundaries I will set are:
- Him not being welcome in my home going forward. (part of me wants to add unless we are reconciling the marriage, but I think that may be too much)
- Limiting communication to be about the kids and using email, he can call if it is an emergency (he likes to not respond to texts and he's hung up on me a few times in the past).
- Closing out the joint account and having him send the support money to my personal account.
I have read and re-read the posts on boundaries and it makes me feel so uncomfortable. I guess that's the point though.
