Thanks J.....the dr is really a great person and I am starting to find the more healthy way of being attracted to her vs my normal bau ways that I had with my Xw.

She is so feminine and so submissive, sweet, kind, etc. and those qualities are really starting to take over for me in how I think towards her and my attraction levels. I am in no rush though. We went to church together yesterday and that was really nice. I had her over to my house for dinner last night and we watched a movie which was really cool. I told her how much I really liked the watch she got me and she told me She was glad and every time I look at it that it should be a reminder of how much she loves me.

She still has not met my parents however in September I will be meeting all of her family at her sons birthday party even her xh. That should be interesting.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018