a lot of mixed messages and emotions because they are confused and in crises
If it is true that it may be caused by unresolved trauma from a younger stage, there is not going to be an easy fix unless the person decides to get therapy and help to explore their past- many will not go this route from my experience
they will choose replay and have fun instead, spend a lot, party, ect...addictions to ease their pain
you may see a lot of touch and goes they seem closer, they hang out more, talk more ect... then they are gone again as if nothing happened
His moving financial accounts and money is a clear message and I would make sure your money, assets accounts credit cards and property are safe
Remember...they LIE do not trust anything you hear and half of what he does
they act in ways totally opposite of who they were.
MY XH came to my home while it was empty and after he had moved out to get paperwork and titles of vehicles ect..
Keep your finances safe while you watch keep focusing on you and your new life while he decides
remember you will need to see consistent and constant movement toward the relationship and behavior of a person who wants to be in a relationship
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