Maybe I know what to do 5

[SteveLW]

Thanks Hallzy.

You know what did it? Last night we decided to take S to a car show. We walked around and looked at all the rods andvreally enjoyed ourselves. After that we just drove around for about an hour after that and jammed out to some music. The way the evening went I can tell you the way it would have ended for any other red blooded man and woman who were doing that same thing

But we got home and it was well good night like roommates who sleep in the same bed. Everything was very nice and friendly and even close. But it became crystal clear that I’m firmly in the friend zone.

I was like “what the hell am I doing”. I’m trying to actively impress her and woo her back. I’ve done that once. 10 years ago. She fired me. She’s not “in love” with me any more. This is a waste of time.

I need to work on me. I need to impress me. I need to challenge me. I need to stop chasing her

Now I do hope to get her back

But it’s about me

As I said before, it is up to her whether or not you are in the friend zone. It is up to you how long you remain there. Your choices are to put up with the FZ as long as she keeps you there (maybe forever) or doing as IHC says and getting out of the R all together.