Gerda's Prayer Takes the Form of Angels

[Gerda]

Hi, Job -- Thank you for the kind words and insight. About writing to the wife -- my H would have to make a deal with me if he did not have a very rich man paying for a very nasty lawyer. I need to stop that flow of money in order to save myself and my kids. Letting his wife know it is happening is the surest way to do that. I know this because he loaned us money once for our biz, and I sent him repayment checks every month. It was only for a few thousand dollars, but once his wife opened the mail addressed to him and was furious beyond belief that he had loaned us money. So I am almost certain that she will be furious about this, which is way more money for a way more terrible cause. I am not trying to convince her of anything. It is purely my last ditch effort to force my H to settle with me and stop battling every penny so viciously simple because he has limitless legal fees. I know it might backfire. She either knows about it and thinks something horrible and untrue about me so my letter will do nothing or she doesn't know about it and will not want her husband spending their money in that way and my letter will stop the flow. So I have nothing to lose. They already think I am crazy and hiding money and all sorts of other things that are not true. It can't get worse. I was very careful not to say anything about my H's treatment of me and the kids, just spoke about the money being spent.