I would say it's not a deal breaker for me. I'm open to understanding her reasons and working through them. I do feel like she's had a lot going on in her life that would make her unhappy and she's likely seeking happiness from easy places.

I want the S agreement because financially I need her help and she's been unwilling to contribute. I guess I also hope that some tough realizations may break her out of her fog. There are consequences to her behaviour.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019