I do agree, tread carefully. I did temp check and its clear its hugging for now. Given she was anxious about being lonely I hope its not a case of just wanting to fill that immediate void. I can only go by her behaviour and it suggests wanting reconciliation, but of course it must be sustainable. If it goes on for at least a month, and there is stready improvement, I'd say its genuine.

We have her birthday dinner coming up and I feel that some R stuff will come up. If it does I can be honest that I'm still a bit uncertain but also positive we are able to get there.

Let's say I'm wrong. She's warming me up so she can buy more time for another Plan A. Would the recommendation be full DB? Ease up slighlty as improvements are noticed? Or do what i plan to, validate, 180, and show small signs of pursuing.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48