W suddenly wants to talk with the kids on the phone during my visitation week to "see how they're doing" She's not done this once in the past 8 months since separation. I have not asked this during her visitation, other than holiday/birthday. I feel she's only trying to probe. At the visitation exchange last week, she kept asking me questions if we were going to travel, who we would be with and what we were going to do, etc... I have a feeling it has to do with the new nanny. What should I do here? There is no court order regarding this type of thing.