The evidence is certainly circumstantial but here's a few tidbits:
1) moving out to her own place seems to be a pretty clear indicator 2) spending money on botox, other surgeries, makeup and hair like crazy trying to look younger 3) Her behaviour when this all first started was nuts: out until 3am with the guys every friday for 8 weeks straight. Not answering or responding to my calls/texts asking if she's ok. She has an apple watch so there should be no excuse for not getting my calls. She called back once and said she was at the bar but it was dead silent in the background. 4) Hiding her phone or putting it face down around her. 5) Bra or underwear in her purse 6) One night we were out for Sister in laws bday and she said she needed to go to the bathroom. She took awhile so I went to go see what she was up to (this was the height of crazy time) and she was standing in the middle of the floor texting someone. When I walked up to her she looked guilty of something and kissed me right away (she hadn't initiated a kiss in a month). 7) on her bday she was late to meet me and even when she got there she walked across the street to meet me but I couldn't see her at the corner. It took her like 30 seconds to finally get from the corner to the restaurant when it should take 3 seconds. It just felt like she was wrapping up a text with someone and didn't want me to see.
There are other things too but putting everything together any vets on here would also suggest she's had an affair. So how can I confront her about it so it's no longer a secret? If part of her is worried that she won't be able to move forward with me with all the guilt then it's destined to be final no matter what. What's wrong with her knowing that I don't agree with it but I think we can get past it if she chooses to open up and work on things?
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
