Okay I need help. My H leaves soon and I need to set clear boundaries, I think it’s best to do it in person.
I’m thinking about saying that I’m glad I was able to help with summer for the kids sake, but going forward he will need to not stay in the family home. That we need healthy boundaries going forward and I know that’s a good start.
What am I missing?
I don’t know if there’s more I should say, but I was to detach so he can work through what he’s going through and so I can keep GAL and thriving. I have been following Sandis guidelines and it seemed at times like H was enjoying being around me, but I really feel confident its time to detach and end the cake eating.
