Paycheck is safely in the bank. I'm relieved that at least I don't have to deal with that at the moment.
Originally Posted by DnJ
I’ll also add that I found being “done” is a pretty nebulous thing. The borders are not well defined, even divorce may not be the end. To be plain about it, divorce is just a piece of paper.
Good choice of a word "nebulous". Being done is a process. A long process. It ebbs and flows and hard to pinpoint a specific time to really be done. I guess that's because it's all about emotions. But, to me, divorce is more than just a piece of paper. It is the end-result of a decision - a decision by one or more people to say "I'm done with you. Done with us".
Divorce. It makes me a bit sad to contemplate.
I'm not done. But I'm not going back to the person I was 10 months ago. Still moving forward, still embracing the new (old) me, still living a fulfilling life, still developing close relationships with old and new friends.
