So after a positive few days it has just all kicked off again due to a stupid action I made on the night I found out about the ow.
H has just found out that I transferred some money to my account in case he backed out of the holiday to make sure I had enough to still give the kids a good time. We don't have joint accounts.
I have put it back but obviously this is a great excuse now as to why we don't work etc etc......why the relationship is doomed etc
I have apologised and explained that I did it out of anger and the fact that he was out spending on hotel rooms really angered me.
Shall I carry on and hold my head up as normal? continue GAL and detaching etc
I don't want to lose hope and have had a great few days. We have actually had normal conversations and talked about fun memories from the past. We have also discussed some of the issues in the relationship which led to the affair. All of which we both agree on were both our faults.
I think he thinks he now has the upper hand though and control over our situation.
