How are you doing??? Your update is just so awful to read. It makes no sense that your wife would cheat, leave you, not even file for divorce, and then have a baby with her affair partner while she's still married to you. I almost wonder if she totally forgets she's still married? It also doesn't make sense that she'd make all these major life changes and start a family so quickly all within a year. It seems something isn't right psychologically with her. That's not something that any sane person would do. You've stayed quiet and cooperated all this time but it's really a big shock and so unfair to you. I kind of hope you erase her from your memory completely and forget this part of your life ever happened. Wouldn't it be nice if it were that easy?
Hi Nicole. Thanks for your comments and support. I'm doing ok. On holiday at the moment in Spain. It's difficult being on my own surrounded by happy couples, but i am relaxing and catching up on sleep. I'm emotionally exhausted from thr last 12 months. Dday will be very soon. I expect she will file in the next two months. I haven't heard from her since February. She' acts like i don't exist. I still can't fathom how she got pregnant do quickly, when she only moved in with her AP last March. The amount of huge life decisions she's made in 12 months is frightening. I can't go back to her ever now, even if she returns one day. Not after everything she's done and how she's behaved. I have made peace with it, but I'm extremely hurt on how i have been treated. The one person in life i never thought who could hurt me so cruelly with no empathy or remorse.
It is what it is.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
