Bpd: don’t read anything into it. This seems to a pattern of MLC, they will randomly decide to have cold, unaffectionate sex. The general pattern is like what you describe, and there will be no kissing or any kind of intimacy. Why do they do it? Hey who knows and there is no use in trying to figure it out. Just guard yourself, don’t get your hopes up, and pretend it never happened.

If this is not the case then no harm, but if it is random you won’t find yourself very hurt by this. Please be careful and stand back.