Happy birthday! Dr seems really thoughtful and considerate and it sounds like you guys are forming a healthy relationship with each partner capable of giving.

In the beginning, it seemed like you (and many other men) placed value on the types of women that were more demanding, unstable, and liked to insight drama, jealousy, and insecurity. For some reason the challenge that goes along with these women makes them appear more valuable even when they are not as educated, intelligent, or as physically attractive

Usually it’s the men with ulterior motives that are the ones that know to seek out women that are capable of love and kindness but also have the other physical attributes. (And vice versa)


So I’m really rooting for the two of you


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer