8 years is a long time, maybe they have a lot to catch up on.
Listen I know where you’re going in your head and I have no clue what is the truth. I’ve also been there worrying about worst cases and it [censored]. I’m offering alternatives just because that helped me climb off Mt. Emotion many times.
Whatever you do I suggest you fight the urge to text or call her. Think of pros and cons if you need to.
