I see. If you're going to stay up all night worrying, I would give her a quick call. I think checking in that she's OKAY is not a huge deal, so long as you leave it at that and don't pry. Note her tone and any background noises. Like, "Hey, was just turning in and noticed you weren't home. Just checking you're okay."
It's MUCH better than looking like you stayed up all night.
16. If you are in the habit of asking your spouse his/her whereabouts, ASK THEM NOTHING!! No matter what time he/she comes home!
You aren't asking their whereabouts--don't pry! You're just double-checking they're ok before turning in.
It's borderline. When my partner was at the bar Wednesday enjoying her superalcoholic drink solo, I did not call her, but I also slept easily. You sound like you're going to be up all night worrying. If you are and she gets home tomorrow, you're going to be red-eyed and dealing with it in a sleep-deprived state. If you can just go to sleep that is great. If you're going to call, I wouldn't call much later than this, though.
Tonight will be the first time in 8 days my partner will sleep in the same bed.. and I'm not looking forward to it, lol. Again, our situations are completely flip-flopped.
Ya. You know I think there really is more to me than all this. But all this marriage stuff. It seems like that’s all to me there is since BD
I filled my boss in on everything a while back. He told me that it sounds awful and he can’t imagine. He has let my drop in efficiency slide because he is a good guy. When I need li walk out of the building and cry. He doesn’t say anything. This is my NEW boss by the way at a job I just started. Mech chops are very fast paced and don’t have time for slackers
I’m glad she is coming home. I think I believe her. I think
