How are you doing??? Your update is just so awful to read. It makes no sense that your wife would cheat, leave you, not even file for divorce, and then have a baby with her affair partner while she's still married to you. I almost wonder if she totally forgets she's still married? It also doesn't make sense that she'd make all these major life changes and start a family so quickly all within a year. It seems something isn't right psychologically with her. That's not something that any sane person would do. You've stayed quiet and cooperated all this time but it's really a big shock and so unfair to you. I kind of hope you erase her from your memory completely and forget this part of your life ever happened. Wouldn't it be nice if it were that easy?
