Go re read what sandi wrote a thread or two ago. She gave you a TON of great advice.
The bottom line is that your wife said ILYBINILWY and that she was unsure of her future with you correct? Remember that when you make decisions. Until she tells you differently, she still feels that way. Like everyone’s said to you a few times now, if she wants to be with you, you will know. If she doesn’t you will be confused.
Keep reading and listening to the vets advice. Keep DBing.