Now what?

[peacetoday]

I like everything KML suggested

I know feeling the pain/loss of a spouse is so difficult
and I promise you that it passes and even when I look back now there is No regrets
I did all I could to save our M

Truth is we cant see how fabulous our lives can be while we are grieving,
but one foot in front of the other
we get to a happier place---even though that seems impossible at the time of the loss

We never know if/when the MLCer will truly shift back and there seems to be a stream of that going on the boards right now

but only time can really tell what the future holds
we have to live our best life now
making the best choice at the moment
trying to save the M first by letting it go-and grieving we have the best chance to save ourselves and our M
using each day to grow and learn the skills that will push us forward with or without our H