Here is a question that I am still REALLY struggling with. Please help me wrap my head around it. I made a little headway with Detachment last night bu here is what’s tripping me up
Sandi you have said you think my W is emotionally vulnerable. My neighbor thinks this as well. She is searching for an emotional connection. How does making myself less available help this situation. It just doesn’t make sense. I know it’s counter intuitive. But that kinda just seems illogical. I DO understand that we each need to have our own lives. That is healthy. But if she is vulnerable right now. Shouldn’t I be DOING something. ANYTHING to help this vulnerability. Leaving her to her own mess like I’ve been told seems like I’m telling her I’m not available you should go find someone else to make you feel better
It feels like I’m asking her to go have an A. I haven’t ignored your guys advice. I promise. But I need it to make sense or I will never be able to put my heart into it.
