"This arrangement isn’t working for me anymore! I respect and accept your decision to not make our Marriage a priority. I respect myself too much to continue waiting for someone that doesn't want to be with me. I realize that I could be waiting forever for that to happen and that’s not what I want. I have decided to move forward with the D process and would like us to come to an agreement on custody and finances, keeping this process as simple as possible. I think you should find another place for your horse as soon as possible. Only contact me if it's an emergency in relation to our kids as I feel that's what I need to move on."
More to the point and less explaining.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.