Story and Symptoms of WAW/MLC Part 4

[Wolfman]

IH After reading your last post I feel like we married twins. What you wrote I could have written word for word. How hey can’t find their own happiness, that they are constantly chasing it and also making us out to be the villian. That our m problems was all my fault and they did nothing wrong. Even what you wrote about the gym. I would always ask my w to go and she would always say she hated it. Guess what she started to do once we separated, yep go to the gym. Same with the house she never took care of the house. I did most of it which was fine, but when I asked her she would get so mad that I asked her to put the dishes in the dish washer. I guess there is nothing we can do, they have to go through this mental turmoil by themselves. And maybe oneday they will wake up and realize what they lost. But by then we could be gone. It’s sad that they are so lost and don’t realize what they are doing. Everything is based on emotions. Not logic.