Destiny = outcome. Avoid the trap of trying to control outcomes. Filing for D is a big step, no doubt, but it is also an arbitrary line in the sand. People do reconcile after filing. Or they don't.
I'm not trying to tell you what to do, only you can decide. Just challenging you to try to view things a little bit differently and avoid thinking of "filing for D" as the 3rd rail you don't want to touch at any costs.
