Persistent Endurance (Part 5)

[curtis7]

1-4 all suck.

Well, some version of them all worked for others here in the past. I'm not saying to deliver just the words. It is a starting point that prompts the action. For instance, in Puppy's case, he told his W he knew about her affair, then followed up by filing for D when she refused to end the A. In Bustorama's case, he told his W he was basically done, went NC for many weeks, then moved on to D. Both of them R.

So what can you do? Stop thinking about what to say and think about what you can do?

Here are some questions: How much are you charging her for boarding of the horses? Have you talked to a L? Does she have a key and come and goes as she wants? If so, why? I know early on there was talk about not being able to afford the house without her, is that still the case? If so why not put the house up for sale?

I can demand the horse is off the property, go NC, and/or file for D.

I'm still not charging for the horse. I've spoken with a L twice, may call again today to initiate some paperwork. She does have a key, but doesn't step foot in the house without asking first. I can probably afford the house without her but that would require giving up a lot of luxuries (travel, extra savings, dining out, etc.). I like my home and so do my kids, not ready to uproot them.