1. Move back, ASAP. You should have never left. 2. Take back the MBR. This is important because your STBXW doesn't respect you. Taking back the MBR will earn back her respect. 3. I am missing the "impact on D". This is all going to suck for your D9. But having her dad in the marital home is definitely better than not having her. 4. No guest bedroom isn't your problem. You move back. Move your stuff into the MBR. Take her stuff and put out of the MBR. WHen she protests you say firmly, "I refuse to share the MBR with a cheater." Then listen, and validate. Stand firm. She will be angry and may even scream "I hate you". But she WILL respect you. 5. If she leaves for OM's apartment, even better. Then she is his problem. And you've flipped the script on the abandonment issue!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
