Now what?

[BarbH]

Okay guys, he's coming home today on his days off to do "chores". I have plans to be in town all day. Went to the lake to visit an old friend (she's like a 2nd mother to me and him)...and find out he has rewritten our script and is telling everyone "we've separated, but we're still friends". I've already told him we are not friends, I am his estranged wife giving him the space he's asked for. Has he gone that far ahead in his mind that we're already done and now we are "friendly?" What on earth is that about? And if this is MLC, which I'm still convinced it is, I read a lot about the MLC'er spewing anger etc at the LBS. Should I be glad there's none of that? Or is he just that emotionally checked out? Is it yet to come? Getting my antidepressants adjusted today. Thank goodness.

apparently he's just sitting around his sister's house when he's not at work. Going to the bar/gym/running etc has died out. His 60th bd on Aug 16.