Sandi thank you for that. BTW. I have struggled my entire life with finding my own self worth. It’s process I need to get started on ON ANOTHER NOTE
I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So we are grocery shopping. It’s 10 pm. S is crying about a toy. Cart is loaded and heavy and W starts getting snappy cause she is tired and stressed. She starts huffing and puffing and it ALMOST gets me down. Then it’s like all your advice hit me. And her mood had NO AFFECT on me!!!! I just smiled and was helpful and controlled S and was upbeat and happy. I just checked out of her mood swing.
It was a relief. It just passed me by and I didn’t get drug into it.
It was like she needed me to step up because she couldn’t figure out what groceries to buy. She looked like she was about to cry
I just kept my good vibes goin and upbeat and she didn’t even stay upset. It’s like she couldn’t because I was happy and didn’t sink with her
10 min later she was back on track.
She really seems to be having a mid life meltdown. I feel bad for her. Maybe someday she will see the excellent man I’m becoming and realize she can lean on me. Until then I will just have to love her quietly from a distance.
