DnJ, you have been my rock, my go to person in all of this, and this was the first time I didn’t agree with you. I feel bad about it, but I hope you can forgive me for not taking your advice completely. I am staying on my course, but at the same time opening the door a little to see if he wants to come in. I’m not pushing, pleading or asking. I only reply when he texts or calls, so my behavior has not changed. I’m still all about GAL.
From my point of view there is nothing to forgive. You do not have to take my advice or suggestions, it is your choice. I am here to support you.
That being said and with acknowledgement of your feelings. Yes, of course I forgive you. Please let go of feeling bad about not “taking my advice”. You have not let me down - honest!
These situations with our WAS or MLCers are difficult and everyone is a bit different. I want what it best for you.
This is, and has always been, your path, your journey. I am happy to be walking it with you.
Originally Posted by Nyla79
I will keep you posted, and hopefully I don’t have to crawl back and admit that you all were right and I was wrong….
Nyla, right and wrong really don’t exist in these crazy situations. Hindsight isn’t even 20/20, and looking towards the future is just an educated guess. This is not an exact science.
I am glad you will keep posting. Everyone is pulling for you. And that is the primary focus - you. Nyla, is the most important person in all of this.
I would like to assure you, I am not against your decision. I will be here, encouraging you.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
