Originally Posted by ozman
R2C did you see the 5 things you asked me to list?

50 guesses as to why I didn't respond, and I bet you will get it them all wrong.

Traveling.Missed flight.Different country.No easy internet access setup.


The point is our minds make up all kinds of stuff. Don't belief it. Learn to control your mind. Don't let it control you.



Originally Posted by Ready2Change
There are 100's of positive changes you can make in your behavior that will all add up to you being more attractive.

Right now, focus on the top 5. Get them completely part of the new you. Then start working on the next 5.


What do you think are the top 5? (or 10). List them out and we will help clarify.



Originally Posted by ozman
R2C. Top 5

Be quieter listen harder
Be more decisive
Dress nicer
Talk deeper
Flirt (a little bit)?

I believe you can come up with a couple that are more important. Make the list as long as possible. Start with number 6 and ask yourself it is more important than any of the top 5. If so, put it into the top 5 and let 5 drop to 6.

This is a thinking exercise for you.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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