Originally Posted by CSL
Originally Posted by DejaVu6
Do NOT be afraid to let go. It is the only way to get him back...assuming you will even want him back at the end of this.


^^ This is the advice I continue to see over and over again. Often in posts where couples have reconciled. And not just on this site, but all over the web. That being said, it is so hard to do. Fear keeps holding me back. I hope that the more and more I am able to GAL, stay busy, and detach, the easier it will be to let go.



Thank you CSL. I also keep seeing the same phrase. I am doing my best to let go... small steps at a time, telling myself over and over that it's okay to let go and move on, to be strong for the kids etc...

I didn't GAL today...came home sick instead. Rest right now is more important to me. Plus it not often that the house is quiet and I'm alone.


DejaVu6, I'm going to look into your stitch. I hope to learn from it. Thank you for the hug.