Maybe I know what to do 4

[SteveLW]

I've said this before. Right after my W BD'd me, and obviously before, I started to kill it in my career. Got a double raise, a huge bonus and a promotion.....all within 2 months of BD. So my WW, was suddenly staring at an uber-successful in business H, vs. EA OM who was unemployed, HS dropout, living with elderly dad, and an ex-con, only positive was he could sing well. And potential EA OM#2 who was a HS eductated security guard (not putting down the job but in comparison not very successful) but also could sing really well.

And then I had turned it around at home (read my sitch for details) and had become AMOAFWL on top of career success.

The result was that it woke her up fairly quickly to how good she had it, and how badly she was trading down. Her dad is a very driven, successful CEO of multiple companies over the decades. I remember when I discovered the OM#1 I jokingly said to her, "I can just imagine you introducing him to your dad!" And she look like 1000 bees had stung her.

Find your mojo. Then flaunt it.